WHY DOES MY TWIN FLAME RUN FROM ME?

"The harder you push me, the further I will go."

This is a post that I have asked my divine masculine (DM) to please help me out with so that I can give the DM perspective on the effect it has on them when we divine feminine (DF) push them.

I have come across a lot of twin flames that are stuck in the runner chaser dynamic after the recognition and bubble love phase ends.

It is easy to get stuck in this runner chaser dynamic, when we are stuck in our 3rd dimensional (3D) view on relationships.

Yes you have just met the most important person in the world to you and you want to hold onto that with all of our might. And live happily ever after like you would in any other normal relationship.

Yes you have just learned that you share a soul with another and you treat the other as if the they are you and belong to you, because of the initial bond.

Having this response is normal because you want to treat this connection like it is any other 3D connection that you have ever had.  

But you can't, because this is not the nature of a twin flame connection. Your connection is divine and of a very, very high frequency which rids and repels any low vibration from it.

When crisis hits after the bubble love phase it is because it is time to get cracking on your healing so that you can get rid of all of your lower frequencies so that you can be in union with your twin at the high frequency that your connection is.

The DF wants to keep reliving the bubble love phase when crisis has hit and healing needs to start. In doing this she is just prolonging the journey to union.

Both twins are triggered at this point of crisis. Both egos kick in and then separation occurs while you both should be dealing with your triggers and your pain and releasing old karma.

I have come to notice that in certain twin flame couples the DF seems to inundate the DM with questions and information and neediness, like she expects him to help her make sense of what she is going through or like she feels like she has to heal the DM and wake him up.

Co dependency patterns seem to kick in to the max here and the DF is trying to relive the glory days of the bubble love but is in turmoil and the turmoil repels the connection, and so the DM retreats. 

It needs to be understood that separation and the DM going into "passive retreat" or withdrawing from any deep contact is part of the soul contract in order to trigger healing. Just as the DF pushing at him to be all she wants him to be in that moment is triggering the hell out of the DM. 

The DM is giving energetically to the DF the opposite of how she is reacting. They reacting as polar opposites hence energetically creating balance to the mayhem.

The harder the DF pushes, the more passive the DM will become.

I also mean energetically!!! If the DF is energetically bombarding the DM he will pick it up the same way, because your twin responds to your energy! So even if you have stopped in 3D with asking and messaging, if you are still feeling it and thinking it, your twin is picking it up and stepping into the fog.

The DF needs to learn to be in the present moment and she needs to learn to stand in her own power and let go of the control on thinking that she has all the answers to their union and that she needs to help the DM to heal.

So ultimately when the DF pushes the DM she is pushing him away. She is turning him into an elusive butterfly that she is never going to catch because he is just backing off into the fog.

We know that it feels impossible to back off, but it is the only way you are going to strike harmony again between the two of you. Step into your own power and stop trying to take away the DM's power by thinking that he can't or won't heal himself.

If you can rather focus all that energy onto your own healing and trust that your DM is very, very capable of taking care of his own healing and awakening, you will get into a harmonious connection with your twin again much sooner rather than later. 

Wishing you abundant clarity and strength!

Twin Flame Healing

xxxx