TWIN FLAMES - HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE HEALING

"Healing is not a place you reach, it is an ongoing process of deeper discovery into yourself."

I had a question a couple of weeks ago, "how do I know if I am healing?" I have essentially made a list of signs of healing, it is by no means complete, but I think it gives a pretty good indication if you are on the right track. So here is my understanding of healing....

My experience of healing is that it is a lifelong process, where you meet yourself on deeper and deeper levels. Always gaining more and more freedom from within as the layers keep getting stripped off. I have been on a committed healing journey for more than 18 years and I am still going strong.

We have lifetimes to shed and multi verses to discover, it is not a rush or a destination. 

Being exposed to the twin flame journey means that healing can be massively accelerated but by no means does it mean that you are meant to reach a specific destination which makes you think that you are completely healed.

Part of healing is knowing that we are not meant to be getting somewhere and be perfect. It is knowing that we are perfectly imperfect and every moment of our life is new learning and that is the journey.

Healing is the journey from your head to your heart. Realizing that you have a soul that needs nurturing and healing above all else.

Taking full responsibility for yourself and your happiness and shifting all blame from others and forgiving, that is a really big step in the direction of healing.

No matter how severe the action was against you, forgive the perpetrator, because holding onto bitterness, fear, anger etc only poisons you. It continues to give the other power over you and you feed them energy with those emotions. 

Learning to identify your ego, and I mean all of it, that is another huge indicator that you are making progress. 

Our ego is the most slippery thing that comes in all guises, including the self sacrificial saint. Learn to know all its guises.

You are open to learning always, realizing that there is always more to learn.

You become aware of all of you, the good the bad and the ugly, and the extremely beautiful and magical too. You embrace all of it.

You own your dark, but you live your light. You do your shadow work and learn to cast your light on all the dark spaces of your being to heal them and love them.

You stop judging yourself and others. You no longer pity yourself or others, you understand that that pity slows down growth and healing and keeps you or others a victim. Yes, you shift out of victim mentality.

You know your strengths and your weakness and own both, losing any need to be defensive, because you know the truth and the truth never offends you.

You lose your need to be competitive, because you embrace your individuality and the unique individuality of others. You only want to be a better version of yourself for yourself.

You start loving yourself on deeper and deeper levels and putting that love into action, by setting healthy boundaries, being kind to yourself, doing things that make you happy, releasing yourself from all suffering and living your worth. Accepting yourself fully. 

You accept others fully without any need to change them or control them.

You drop your masks and live from a space of authenticity.

You live with a open heart and a space of vulnerability. Your courage comes from a space of honesty, doing the right thing no matter how scary it may seem.

You have no resistance to where the healing process takes you. You are willing to relive pain from the past until it becomes just a memory with no resistance attached.

You attract healthy, happy, loving relationships to yourself, because you are able to receive love as well as give it. The people in your life love and appreciate you.

Because you know your own worth at the deepest level of your being you want to take care of yourself on all levels, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically.

You live and attract abundance to yourself on all levels.

You are filled with gratitude for all that you have and all that you are and have endless appreciation for everything that you are in contact with. 

You have endless compassion for yourself and the more compassion and kindness that you have for yourself the more you have for others.

You feel a deep appreciation and love for the planet and all that dwell on it.

You feel a deep connection to source and to all beings.

You connect with your intuition and higher self and live a divinely guided life.

You are always honest with yourself, so you don't hide or suppress emotions. You know that being positive all the time is not real. You are real and understand that life is an ebb and flow and therefore all of your emotions have space to be and expressed and released. 

You surrender to everything, you stop trying to control the outcomes of everything in your life, you let go of worry and learn to flow.

You listen to your souls calling and do the things it calls you to do, so that you can live your purpose.

And so the list goes on and on and on.... it is a process that never stops. The more you learn the less you know, you just keep becoming lighter and lighter as you go deeper and deeper into the journey. 

By no means should anyone feel like they are not healing if they are not ticking all of the boxes, just ticking one box shows that you are on your healing path.

I hope that this has answered your question and helped you.

Wishing all endless healing and love

Twin Flame Healing

xxxx

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TWIN FLAMES - THE CALM OF SURRENDER VIDEO

12 minute video on how I have got to a place of surrender.

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Sending all abundant love
Twin Flame Healing
xxxx

TWIN FLAMES - HOW TO TRULY LET GO OF SUFFERING ON THIS JOURNEY

"Be in the moment, make surrendering to being in the moment your constant practice until it is like breathing."

I love my twin flame journey! Not because it is easy or because I am in union with my twin, because it is not easy and I am not in union with my twin. 

I love this journey because of the lessons and the healing. The fact that I am able to access the wisest parts of myself and put it into practice because of all the pain and past I am shedding on this journey!

I love that I am always getting deeper soul healing and shifts which make me clearer on who I am at my core.

I love that I love myself deeper everyday! And that too is hard! It is hard to set new, healthy boundaries of self respect and self love and to retrain myself to stand up for myself, always!

I love that I lose my ego a little bit more through every "dark night" I face.

I love it when my perspective shifts and I am able to experience deeper love and deeper peace inside my soul, because I fight so hard with my ego to let go of suffering until it does!

It is in the resistance to what is that we suffer. 

Our ego loves to attach to an outcome. It likes to control how we reach that outcome. It likes to rationalise everything and it likes to "guard" our hearts from being hurt. 

Our heart feels things so deeply with love and trust. It only knows love. It only knows how to be compassionate and not take things personally and it only knows how to have faith and not make assumptions.

Our ego creates worst case scenarios and it lives in the past and the future. It lets go of nothing and controls everything.

Our soul is infinitely patient. It trusts its process completely. It loves so much that it doesn't suffer. It accepts everything as being for higher good. No regrets, no mistakes, just acceptance of what is. Trust, faith, patients.

Time is a concept which the ego identifies with. Patients doesn't belong to the ego. The twin flame journey is not about the how. It is about letting go of the how. Complete and total surrender, constant surrender. Let go of the how, let go of the suffering. Be present in the moment and love it for all that it is.

Timing kills our buzz, along with attachment to outcome. We want to be in union with our twin and we want that fast. We do all the work to be in union. We do the work for them? NO! We must do the work for us! 

The timing is not important! So learn to just go with the flow and live your life with absolute and complete divine guidance. Let go of the how!!

So what if it takes ten years to be in union or fifty years? Time is just a number. If when you get to union you are so free inside of yourself and totally engulfed in source energy and all that you emit is love and you are one of the brightest lights to the world, that is worth it surely? Not the union? The union is the icing on the cake?! Yes?!

It really is all about love. Pure unconditional love. The only way that we can truly access this is by releasing all of our old paradigms around love. We need to release all parts of ourselves which are needy and small and anything less than pure all encompassing source energy love.

We are all love at our core. We are all perfect beings of light. We are all so magnificent. We don't need to have needs fulfilled by our twins. We need to release beliefs that we are unlovable or unwanted or that we are never going to be loved. No matter what template this life gave you, it can be changed!!

It is only a small ego that attaches to wanting to be loved or wanted in a specific way by another. Your heart needs to be pure and the Universe with provide you with this love from within. Ask for this so that you can stop suffering and believing that it needs to come from an outside source. Ask for the Universe to show you that you are not separate from love and that it is your source and that this source is infinite. And that this infinite source is within you and it overflows from you and touches every being on this planet!

You are a twin flame. You are a being of infinite love and light. You are here to heal the world by laying new templates and breaking through barriers that keep humanity small and stuck in a lower consciousness.

Free yourself! Challenge your ego and don't stop until you break through. 

You can love your twin and not be with them in 3D. You can love yourself so much that you can let go of absolutely EVERYTHING that causes you suffering!! You just have to be willing to look within to find the source. Nothing comes from outside of us.

We only react to wounds that are already within us. Our twins have given us the biggest gifts in the world by being the catalysts to the deepest healing imaginable within ourselves. They only point the way to our healing. It is not personal ever. Their dysfunction is only there to trigger our deepest healing and vice versa. No other relationship on the planet can do this like twin flames. We are here to raise above the ego. 

We suffer because we are stuck in our ego. We blame because we are not taking responsibility. Ask for divine help and guidance. We have not been thrown into this journey alone. We have divine support, we just need to ask and a way will be shown to us to heal. 

Let go of the how and trust the process that the divine gives to you. Let go of your ideals of perfection. Embrace the pain, honor the pain, accept the pain if that is how it is shown. Just trust your journey and love yourself.

Sending all infinite love and peace in your soul!

Twin Flame Healing
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FALSE TWIN FLAMES PART 2

"True love is of light, not of pain and suffering."

I believe that if we are choosing to stop the flow of love coming to ourselves, then we are not setting new templates in divine love, but we are still choosing a 3D belief of lack, because we not receiving abundant love for ourselves.

Twin flames are here to break old templates and set new higher vibration ones. We are meant to be happy and loved. Love is not a one way street. It is give and take, not give, give give give. It is not about pain only!! 

Unconditional love as I understand it is filled with compassion, non judgement and complete acceptance. For yourself first and foremost and then for others. When you love unconditionally you are not meant to be bound to suffering for all eternity. That is not loving yourself.

Someone left a comment on my last post about her awakening to self love from her false twin flame experience and two things really stuck out for me and resonate deeply for me which are...

You must 100% love yourself unconditionally to even KNOW who your twin is. Because only by loving YOURSELF do you KNOW yourself. And if you don't know YOURSELF you cannot possibly know who your twin is because ... your twin is YOU! 


my twin is ME. We are 1 soul in 2 bodies. I started to think, ok if my twin is me, would I treat myself as my "false" twin had treated me? NO! I wouldn't treat myself like this! How would I treat myself?

Love yourself so much that you allow yourself to be loved!! You deserve to be loved fully and completely. 

Sending endless love to all

Twin Flame Healing

xxxx

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FALSE TWIN FLAMES PART 1 - ARE YOU ALWAYS FEELING UNLOVED AND LIKE YOU ARE NOT GETTING ANYWHERE WITH YOUR TWIN FLAME CONNECTION?

" True love will never leave you feeling without."

The false twin flame topic is one that I believe is not spoken of enough. I have been guided to find out more on the subject because it appears to me that many twin flames get stuck in a loop of suffering in their connections with what they deem as their divine counterpart.

I see so much being taught about how to cope with the pain and self sacrifice. Telling people to keep the faith no matter what and no matter how badly they are treated in their TF connection.

I see people petrified to lose their TF, like they have to tolerate and put up with abuse and cruelty. 

These to me show patterns in a lack of self love and self respect.

As I understand true TF connections, they are of light and of love. They are not of torture. You should be making progress with your TF if you are making progress in your own growth.

The love of TFs is supposed to be so powerful that BOTH of you want to work towards being together. BOTH feel that you belong with this other person and will move mountains in your own life to get into union with this person you see and feel as your one true love.

The TF journey is one of self love above all else, and you have to understand that love is about giving and receiving. If you think that you have to keep giving love and not get love back in equal amounts of you giving it, then personally I think that you are abusing yourself and torturing yourself.

In a true TF connection you will BOTH feed one another and BOTH care about each others growth. You will BOTH feel a soul calling towards each other and you will BOTH not be able to stay away from each other. It resonates very deeply with me that the connection will be mutual not one sided.

When love is one sided it drains you and it makes you question your worth. When love is one sided it hurts and it leaves you feeling lack. When love is one sided it is not a mutual exchange of energy.

I know that I could be rocking the boat big time here. But I just want people to look at how they view love in their lives.

A lot of people will argue that unconditional love means that it doesn't matter if that person doesn't love you back. I believe this is true to a degree. If you are in a true TF connection as much as you love this person is as much as they love you which means that they will want to make you feel as loved as you make them feel. Part of their soul purpose is loving you.

I do not believe that the true TF journey is learning through pain. I think it is about learning through love. 

A false twin flame connection has exactly the same signs and synchronicity as a true twin flame connection. I would think that the main thing that I can pinpoint where there is a huge reg flag warning sign is that the false twin doesn't love you back, in fact they will be cruel, cool and manipulative towards you. They will take everything that you have to give them but they will give you nothing back, or only give back enough to keep you on a string feeding them energy.

A connection where only one person is taking responsibility and growing is like wanking metal. You are not going to get anywhere.

A true twin flame connection is not going to be painless, but there is going to be a lot more positive than negative which comes out of it for BOTH of you. Learning through mutual love and respect. Because of the soul mission of TFs, you are going to BOTH grow and develop. If you are never coming together with the person who you think is your TF, maybe it is because you are not meant to be together and you are missing your lesson.

If you are having a twin flame experience, there is no doubt that you are a true twin flame. But if the person that you are having the experience with is not mutually feeding you with love and is making you feel drained and that your lessons are only through pain with them, then I think you should ask yourself if you are loving yourself by allowing the connection to continue in this way?

PLEASE NOTE: If you are in a true TF connection, NOTHING can EVER break this bond. Especially not you stepping into your power and valuing yourself. So fear of losing your twin is something that you need to work on. 

Learn to fearlessly love yourself.

Learn to put true love first for yourself.

By allowing a one sided love to rule your life and always keep you away from happiness within, you are blocking your true twin flame from loving you and being all that they can be in your life.

You are worth all the love in the world. Your true TF will only want you to be happy and have all the love in the world and they will want to give you all the love in their heart. 

This is just what resonates with me and this is what makes sense for me on my journey. Please take only what and if this resonates with you.

Sending all nothing but love, clarity, truth and endless self love 

Twin Flame Healing

xxx