FALSE TWIN FLAMES PART 1 - ARE YOU ALWAYS FEELING UNLOVED AND LIKE YOU ARE NOT GETTING ANYWHERE WITH YOUR TWIN FLAME CONNECTION?

" True love will never leave you feeling without."

The false twin flame topic is one that I believe is not spoken of enough. I have been guided to find out more on the subject because it appears to me that many twin flames get stuck in a loop of suffering in their connections with what they deem as their divine counterpart.

I see so much being taught about how to cope with the pain and self sacrifice. Telling people to keep the faith no matter what and no matter how badly they are treated in their TF connection.

I see people petrified to lose their TF, like they have to tolerate and put up with abuse and cruelty. 

These to me show patterns in a lack of self love and self respect.

As I understand true TF connections, they are of light and of love. They are not of torture. You should be making progress with your TF if you are making progress in your own growth.

The love of TFs is supposed to be so powerful that BOTH of you want to work towards being together. BOTH feel that you belong with this other person and will move mountains in your own life to get into union with this person you see and feel as your one true love.

The TF journey is one of self love above all else, and you have to understand that love is about giving and receiving. If you think that you have to keep giving love and not get love back in equal amounts of you giving it, then personally I think that you are abusing yourself and torturing yourself.

In a true TF connection you will BOTH feed one another and BOTH care about each others growth. You will BOTH feel a soul calling towards each other and you will BOTH not be able to stay away from each other. It resonates very deeply with me that the connection will be mutual not one sided.

When love is one sided it drains you and it makes you question your worth. When love is one sided it hurts and it leaves you feeling lack. When love is one sided it is not a mutual exchange of energy.

I know that I could be rocking the boat big time here. But I just want people to look at how they view love in their lives.

A lot of people will argue that unconditional love means that it doesn't matter if that person doesn't love you back. I believe this is true to a degree. If you are in a true TF connection as much as you love this person is as much as they love you which means that they will want to make you feel as loved as you make them feel. Part of their soul purpose is loving you.

I do not believe that the true TF journey is learning through pain. I think it is about learning through love. 

A false twin flame connection has exactly the same signs and synchronicity as a true twin flame connection. I would think that the main thing that I can pinpoint where there is a huge reg flag warning sign is that the false twin doesn't love you back, in fact they will be cruel, cool and manipulative towards you. They will take everything that you have to give them but they will give you nothing back, or only give back enough to keep you on a string feeding them energy.

A connection where only one person is taking responsibility and growing is like wanking metal. You are not going to get anywhere.

A true twin flame connection is not going to be painless, but there is going to be a lot more positive than negative which comes out of it for BOTH of you. Learning through mutual love and respect. Because of the soul mission of TFs, you are going to BOTH grow and develop. If you are never coming together with the person who you think is your TF, maybe it is because you are not meant to be together and you are missing your lesson.

If you are having a twin flame experience, there is no doubt that you are a true twin flame. But if the person that you are having the experience with is not mutually feeding you with love and is making you feel drained and that your lessons are only through pain with them, then I think you should ask yourself if you are loving yourself by allowing the connection to continue in this way?

PLEASE NOTE: If you are in a true TF connection, NOTHING can EVER break this bond. Especially not you stepping into your power and valuing yourself. So fear of losing your twin is something that you need to work on. 

Learn to fearlessly love yourself.

Learn to put true love first for yourself.

By allowing a one sided love to rule your life and always keep you away from happiness within, you are blocking your true twin flame from loving you and being all that they can be in your life.

You are worth all the love in the world. Your true TF will only want you to be happy and have all the love in the world and they will want to give you all the love in their heart. 

This is just what resonates with me and this is what makes sense for me on my journey. Please take only what and if this resonates with you.

Sending all nothing but love, clarity, truth and endless self love 

Twin Flame Healing

xxx